How to Get Latina Women to Notice You

“Kindness is really important to me in finding my own prince - so are patience and a sense of humor. Without those qualities he’s no Prince Charming!” - Anne Hathaway

Imagine this: It’s 9:30 in the evening. You are sitting at the bar downing an ice cold, your palate invigorated by a wonderful assortment of tapas. Sexy guitar music is playing as the Latin women flock the dance floor.

You sit in deep reflection as you try to recall whether you left the gas stove burning when you left the apartment. Thankfully no, as you breathe a sigh of relief.

As you turn your head towards the open door it catches you.

A ridiculously beautiful smile. Eyes so disarming you almost drop your glass. The unmistakable charm of a Latina woman, her aura leaving your jaw squarely dropped as she takes a seat no more than 3 yards from you.

You just have to go over and introduce yourself. As you scour the scene you see José on the corner table licking his chops. The tall gentleman on your left has been eyeing her since she walked in. You know you’re closest and have the best chance of getting to her first.

It’s now or never and you need to make your move now.

Whatever happens next and the impending results of your actions can lead to just another trivial night’s affair, or it could be the start of a long term relationship with someone special.

If you foresee a disastrous end to this story, you might want to learn how to get Latina women’s attention the right way.

Dress Well

Attraction always begins with what you see. Your first grade teacher may have told you not to judge a book by its cover but we all know that in order to pick up a book and get reading, you need to like the cover.

Getting attention and being noticed starts with looks. And good looks means dressing well.

That being said, be practical. You’re not flaunting thousand-dollar suits, you’re showing that you know how to take care of yourself.

Dressing well isn’t about money, it’s about an image that you care about your own wellbeing first and foremost. Wear clothes that fit you right. Have good hygiene.

Latin women are attracted to well dressed men for a variety of reasons, the look of success being one. In their world, men are providers. You won’t be sending out provider vibes by dressing like a homeless person.

You also don’t want to overcompensate and come out as fake. Dress confidently but naturally. Sure, there are women who fall for the whole rockstar look, and if that’s your style then more power.

But if you fancy yourself a hardworking, regular joe and are proud of it, then be that. Dress to be the best version of a regular joe that you can.

While looks are only temporary, understand that dressing for success gets your foot in the door and makes you get noticed.

Be confident and if possible, Catholic

While you shouldn’t get baptized just to score with the ladies, understand that many Latin women hold traditional values and going to church is important to them.

That said, the most cliché yet correct advice is to be confident. Traditional Latin women expect men to make the first move.

Never confuse confidence with being rude, proud or arrogant.

A good way to be confident in your approach to women is to not overthink things. Overthinking induces worry and makes you nervous, which leads to you messing up everything else.

To be confident you need to be a little casual and easy going. If a Latina woman senses that you are putting her on a pedestal, she may become disinterested.

Though she may play hard-to-get sometimes, having a man drooling over her is a turn-off. Dating a Latina isn’t simply trying to impress her, it’s by subtly making her feel she is with a great guy.

Confidence doesn’t happen because you think it. Confidence is gained by being comfortable in uncomfortable circumstances - which takes time, practice and experience.

If you are comfortable around women, it will be because you have spent enough time around enough women to become this way.

If you are not comfortable, either consider your next moves as “practice” or make an effort to engage with your female friends more.

Dance. If not, BE ENGAGING

Knowing how to dance is on page one of the Dating a Latina Survival Guide.If you have experienced Latin American culture, you know Latino women know how to get with the festivities. In any and all occasion, music and dance will always be a part of Latino culture.

But say you have two left feet and can’t dance to save your life. Well, be engaging.

This is such an important step if you want to enter into a long term relationship with a Latina woman.

When you engage with a woman, be a listener more than a talker. Don’t keep the conversation around you. Most of all, don’t brag about yourself.

Instead, ask her things about her life and find out what’s important to her. Ask her about her family. Latina women love their families very much. Be genuinely interested in knowing about her.

Don’t take yourself too seriously. Try to be humorous when you can. If you want to see that disarming smile often, make her laugh.

Being engaging and interesting is so attractive to Latin women. Remember, many of them are looking for a serious relationship as well, not fleeting moments of romance.

Being physically fun and attractive for a moment will last a few nights at best for a single Latin woman, but just bagging a great guy is something every Latina woman wants.

Be your best self

Instead of inordinately spending your time figuring out how to get a Latina to fall in love with you, work on being your best self.

Whether you feel you are overweight and too old, or that you are unattractive or have an advantage, Latina women worth their stock will find something in you worth holding on to as long as you try to make the best of who you are.

Perhaps you may not have rock-hard abs anytime soon, but if you work on being friendly, affectionate, engaging and just overall charming, Latina women all over will take notice.