How to Ask a Latina Out on a Date This Christmas

If you’re already dating a Latina, or are considering when to ask a Latina out on a date this upcoming Christmas season, then you might need to prepare a few things.

We all know there can be different stages of dating a Latina. At first, you might think she’s cute and funny. As time goes on, you realize she’s also a fierce kitten with claws.

And if you manage to enrage her, the tiger comes roaring out. Terrified, you flee into your car and drive away. At least that’s how most men describe what it’s like to date a Latina.

Latinas are stereotypically known for being a lot of things - from being feisty, sensual, and sassy to knowing how to rock the dance floor. However, these are just general representations created by the media over a long period of time. They don’t actually cover the entire Latina population.

But they still love having a good time. This coming Christmas is a good opportunity to get to know her and build a stronger bond.

Here are a few things to try:

Make her laugh

There’s a piece of old dating advice that says if you make a girl laugh, she’ll be yours. While that advice doesn’t cover the entire women population, there’s some kernel of truth to it.

According to an article written by relationship expert Aaron Ben-Ze’ev Ph.D., “If on a first meeting, a man is able to make a woman laugh, it increases the chances of her being interested in forming a relationship.”

He added, “Men tend to look for a partner who appreciates their sense of humor, while women tend to look for a man that can make them laugh.”

So if you can make her sincerely laugh at your jokes, your job may already be half over.

Dress smart

Some Latinas love to dress up on special occasions. Whether it’s out on a romantic date or a movie night, she’ll always have something nice to wear.

So it doesn’t hurt to dress smartly when you ask her out. One of the basic methods to impress women is to bring out your best style. But it doesn’t have to be a fancy outfit like a dress suit. Or the latest fashion trend. Just remember to trim your hair and clean up after yourself.

No woman can resist the charms of a well-dressed man, so as long as you wear a clean shirt and pair of pants, she’ll definitely notice.

Bring some gifts

When it’s gestures of affection, some Latinas really know how to show it. It could be gift-giving or open displays of affection. So when their affection is reciprocated, they feel thrilled.

They feel appreciative of a man who knows how to woo a lady, especially if he comes bearing gifts.

If you know her favorites, then you can bring with you a box of her favorite chocolates or bouquet when you ask her out this Christmas. In many cultures from around the world, it’s still considered traditional practice to bring gifts when a man wants to ask a woman out on a date.

Learn some Spanish

Aside from being one of the most globally spoken languages with nearly 500 million native speakers, Spanish is also one of the easiest languages English speakers can learn.

If you manage to speak in her native language, that might earn you some brownie points. And if you’re fluent enough to hold a proper conversation with her, then she might be impressed enough to go out with you on Christmas.

By closing the language barrier between the two of you, you can have an easier time communicating with her on different levels. So polish up your Spanish speaking skills.

Here are a few common Spanish phrases you can use:

Te gustaría salir conmigo?
Would you like to go out with me?

Quieres ir a cenar conmigo?
Do you want to have dinner with me?

Offer to be her ride

A traditional date normally has the guy picking up the girl and taking her home afterward. The purpose is to make sure she gets home safe and sound, without any ulterior motives.

Some Latinas enjoy being given this treatment because they may not be familiar with the area or have easy access to transportation.

But since we are living in the 21st century, the dating scene may have changed. She may prefer to meet you at a destination before your date, or just grab a taxi before meeting you.

If she rejects your proposition to give her a ride home, don’t take it too personally. Some may think it’s dangerous to let the guy know where they live, especially if it’s on the first date.

So if you’re already friends and she feels comfortable enough to let you know where she’s staying, she just might take you up on your offer.

Lastly, confidence is key

Confidence is important when you ask a Latina out on a date. Some Latina women may try to challenge you and see if you have the determination to push through with your goals.

This is how they can tell if you’re worthy to be with them or not. So remember that if you want to impress her, you need to stay firm and act confident.

But take care not to act overconfident since it can sometimes be seen as being arrogant. It can turn a lot of women off, including Latinas. They love a man who takes charge, but the moment he starts acting like he’s God’s gift to women, they may immediately flee for the hills.

When it comes to asking Latinas out on a Christmas date, these are just a few tips we hope can help you achieve success. More importantly, remember to act like a gentleman around Latinas. Make them feel taken care of.

If they see that you’re just dragging them along for fun or if you have hidden motives under your sleeve, they will find a way to turn the tables on you and make you deeply regret stringing their hearts across the pavement floor.